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Remember to Remember

Posted on: January 17th, 2012 by Erik Williams 2 Comments
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Staying focused is difficult. 

Staying on track can be challenging when at work, while doing house cleaning, doing the taxes, and even while parenting.

Perhaps it’s never more tough to do than when it comes to our own daily walk with God…we so easily walk off of the way the Lord has charted out for us.

This is probably why one of the themes of the Bible is Remember! Remember! Remember the Lord your God! In fact, the Bible issues a call to “remember” over 200 times! Most of those have to do with a command to remember God and His works for His people. Others have to do with remembering the sin and old life they were rescued from. Still others call (more…)

What Not to Ask Your Kid After Church

Posted on: December 19th, 2011 by Erik Williams 7 Comments
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One of the youth ministry blogs I read recently
came out with a short write-up on the notorious
interaction between parents and kids after
church.  For many parents, this exchange
can be frustrating if not depressing.

The blog reads:

“Did you have fun?” I have probably asked my
own kids this question dozens of times after
Sunday orWednesday Bible class. But that is going to change.

 Last Wednesday night we were talking about [the cost of following Jesus], specifically looking at Jesus words about [hating your mother and father as compared to your devotion to following him]. I walked out of the class behind one of the students when a parent asked him, “Did you have fun in class?”

 Fun?! I was indignant for about an hour until (more…)

3 Minute Year End Update for Parents

Posted on: December 13th, 2011 by Erik Williams 1 Comment
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Hi Parents,

I wanted to update you on our year and what’s coming up in January.

Less than 3 minutes of good stuff:

PARENTS: If you have questions, comments regarding our subject matter or delivery, please email me here.

Erik Williams
Youth Pastor
Erik on Twitter
CrosslineYouth on Twitter (last minute updates, etc)

Some Help for Connecting with Your Kid

Posted on: November 8th, 2011 by Erik Williams
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Parents, 

I’m blessed to be in the stage of parenting where my daughter thinks I’m a hero and my wife is a “princess”.

THEN….there often comes the dreaded day when mom & dad lose hero status and become a *perceived* threat to a child’s fledgling reputation. (it doesn’t always happen, but it happens quite a bit…)

While it hasn’t happened to us yet, I’ve seen it take place hundreds of times in the last 17 years of youth ministry.  Parents are often taken aback, wondering what they did wrong. Sometimes they react in anger, hoping to force a change. Sometimes they react in a “have it your way” approach and simply let the relationship falter. No matter what, the family is in crisis.

  • Is your child resistant to communicate freely with you about meaningful things?
  • Do you remember a time when conversations were more care free and less toned with edginess?
  • Do you hope to reconnect with your teenager and see your relationship flourish?

There is hope… (more…)

Did my kid make it to camp safely?

Posted on: July 27th, 2011 by Erik Williams
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What’s going on up there? It’s been 2 days!

Hi parents! Hume is here!

If questions like those are starting to float around in your head, there are 2 WAYS to get info that your kid made it safely to camp AND to see more of their experience throughout the week:

OPTION 1: Check the front page of CrosslineYouth.com At the bottom you’ll see our Twitter feed. There you find the most current event detail and info.

OPTION 2: Sign up to follow the CrosslineYouth: Crux33 Twitter account personally and have the information come straight to your mobile phone in the form of a text message. Information and instructions here: http://www.crosslineyouth.com/info/crux33-on-twitter/

Any questions? Hit me up!

Pastor Erik

Sunday Recap for Middle School Parents

Posted on: June 6th, 2011 by Erik Williams
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post by Middle School Shepherd, Grant Gunther

Hey Parents!

Here are the “spark notes” from what we covered yesterday in CrosslineYouth MS.

My hope is that these would open doors for conversations with your child, that Christ might become the center of their life, and that with Christ at the center… they would live lives bearing much fruit for God’s kingdom!

Scripture Covered: John 3:1-21  “Unless someone is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God… Unless someone is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God” (v3, 5).

These words from Jesus lay (more…)

When Children Become Idols

Posted on: April 20th, 2011 by Erik Williams
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This week, many of our students & leaders are reading 1 Sam 1-3 (as part of the Crux100 plan). This O.T. passage is on the top 100 list for a few reasons, like:

*Israel demanded to have a human king instead of a heavenly one & God gives them what they want… even to their detriment.

*God’s plan to raise up a king through whom the true King(and priest), Jesus, would come & is put into place.

One of the smaller stories within the bigger story of God in the book of 1 Samuel revolves around a main character of that name. He was just a regular kid who’d been set apart for God to use from a very young age. He had been dedicated to God, raised by Eli, the Levite priest & then trained as a priest of God.

Although he was a (more…)

Parent Workshop Podcast

Posted on: March 24th, 2011 by Erik Williams
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Hi Parents,

I’ve you were unable to make our Parent Workshop a few weeks back but would still like to glean from our time together…

Download or stream the podcast of the workshop by clicking the image below:

Praying God blessing you and your family with these ideas and truths.

If you’d like to purchase the book, “Give Your Kids the Keys”, you can find it here at Amazon.com.

Thanks to Pastor Adam Stadtmiller for sharing with us what God put on his heart.

Praying for your families,

Pastor Erik

Parents, what are your kids texting?

Posted on: December 18th, 2009 by Erik Williams
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Parents: What are your kids texting?

Do you know?    Do you ask?    Do you look?

A new survey from the Pew Research Center’s Internet & American Life Project found that 4% of cell-owning teens ages 12-17 say they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to someone else via text, a practice also known as “sexting”; 15% say they have received such images of *someone they know* via text message.

“Teens explained to us how sexually suggestive images have become a form of relationship currency,” said Amanda Lenhart, Senior Research Specialist and author of the report. “These images are shared as a part of or instead of sexual activity, or as a way of starting or maintaining a relationship with a significant other. And they are also passed along to friends for their entertainment value, as a joke or for fun.”

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Parents, even if your child doesn’t have a cell phone, this is something you need to talk about, investigate and teach/lead in. If they do have a cell phone, you need to talk more, investigate more and teach/lead more.

  • Does your child know what their expectations are?
  • Have you laid out what is and is not acceptable?
  • Will you allow the culture to tell them what is “normal” and “ok” in a friendship?

Please help your kids think wisely, behave in a God-honoring way, and to have safe guidelines established by mom and dad.

Serving with you,

Pastor Erik

(stats and info from Jim Burn’s www.homeword.com “Culture Brief”)



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